Reasons Why You Should Not Get Back with Your Ex!

Reasons Why You Should Not Get Back with Your Ex!

Reasons Why You Should Not Get Back with Your Ex!
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In real life, it is really hard to move on with somebody you loved before even if he or she hurt you, lied to you and left you with somebody else. Frankly, there is no easy way on how you can forget someone but I can provide you reasons why you should never get back with an EX.

 

YOU HAD A GOOD REASON FOR LETTING HIM OR HER GO

 

There will always be a reason why you do what you do and there is a good REASON WHY YOU BROKE UP. It could be because of his bad breath or awkward laughs, there’s always a reason. Come to think of it, you invest time to get to know him or her, you tried to fight for each other but then you both failed, simply because he or she is not the one for you. Wake up!

 

It didn’t work out the in first place for a reason. If you are thinking of getting back to your ex-lover, remember you broke up because of some unfixable reason and you don’t want to suffer the same situation again.

 

LIVING IN THE PAST PREVENTS YOU FROM MOVING ON

Girl or Boy, never live on the past. Stop reminiscing the good old memories that you had with him or her because that will always make you go back to him or her. Feelings will always be there, the care that you felt for him or her but if you will entertain the thoughts of getting back to him or her, you will never move on.

 

Moving on is often the best medicine after a break up. Dwelling on what's already happened will never move you forward in life--imagine if we as humans were never able to learn from our mistakes. We'd be doomed to make the same stupid mistake for the rest of our lives. If we decided to pick a spouse who didn't appreciate us, we'd be constantly picking that same type of person forever. Doesn't that just suck? Use your ability to learn from your mistakes to make your next relationship better and healthier than your last, instead of repeating your last mistake.

 

YOU’RE THINKING THAT LOVE IS SWEETER THE SECOND TIME AROUND

 

If this saying will be your guide, then you can never move on. Yes, there are some lovers out there who tried to get back together and make things right but different people have different outcomes. What work for them, might or might not work for you.

 

Sometimes, two people get back together and realize all those problems they had before haven't changed. Those issues that caused your break up haven't changed. Nothing has changed. Getting back together usually only causes a rehash of why you broke up in the first place. Which then, leads to another break up.

 

PEOPLE DON’T CHANGE

 

You might think that maybe he or she already changed and you can now start something new but believe me, old habits are hard to break. Yes, it might work on first few days, weeks and months but it will all come back to their old self. Save yourself from a new wound and never get back again.

 

Last and certainly the most important…

 

 

DON'T SETTLE FOR SOMEBODY WHO COULDN'T KEEP YOU AROUND IN THE FIRST PLACE

 

He or she didn’t fight for you when you decided that you want to have a break up. If that person truly loves you, he or she will never let you go.

 

 

 

Remember, these are just some advice for you. It still depends on you, if you are willing to love him or her no matter what and accept her or him for whoever he or she is. If you’re willing to compromise, you can give it a try again however, if it didn’t work out, learn from that mistakes and let go.

 

 

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