How to Make a Decision?
How to Make a Decision?
Pinakamahirap talaga sa buhay ay ang gumawa ng desisyon. Most especially if you need to risks important things in your life like your career, lovelife, family and health. Personally, when I need to make decisions in my life, I always seek for people’s advice. I randomly ask people how they will deal with the same kind of situation that I am into and from that I weigh things and decide for myself. But to be honest, it is easier to advice but when you are the one experiencing it, it’s the hardest. Here are some tips on how you can make a decision:
- Determine the problem.
First, alamin mo muna kung ano talaga yung problema mo. Minsan, kaya ka nahihirapan kasi hindi mo alam kung ano talaga yung problema. Hindi mo naiintindihan yung sitwasyon kaya di mo kayang magdesisyon.
You can always analyze the situation first. Tanungin mo yung sarili mo kung ano bang meron. Nakasalalay ba dito yung buhay mo? Yung career mo? Yung lovelife mo? Yung pamilya mo? After mo malaman kung ano ba talaga yung pinag ugatan, mas maiintindihan mo yung sitwasyon na meron ka.
- Know your choices, if any.
Importanteng malaman mo kung may choices ka ba o wala. Kung may pamimilian ka ba o wala naman dahil yung hirap ng desisyon mo ay sa bigat ng choices mo nakasalalay. If you can notice, it’s really easy to make decisions when the problem does not change your life. But if it will affect you personally, weigh in your choices! Alin ba yung mas mahihirapan ka pag pinili mo? Saan ba yung di ka magiging masaya? Sino ba yung mas importante sayo?
- Seek for advice.
Advice from others is optional however, this might help you bigtime because other people might have encountered the same problems as yours and looking at how successful they have become or how lonely they are now will give you the idea of what could be the better choice. However, different people have different outcomes. Some might be effective to them and not to you and vice versa. But at least you’ll get the idea.
You can get as many advice as you want and you can count the votes they made and majority wins. The good thing about asking others is because they have better opinions than the person whose dealing with it.
Minsan kasi, nabubulagan tayo sa kung anong mas gusto nating marinig kesa sa kung ano yung tama at dapat. At least when you ask others, they don’t have any motives to lure you in choosing the bad choice.
- Be brave to accept the consequences after you made the decision.
To be honest, kaya tayo nahihirapan magdesisyon ay dahil natatakot tayo sa kalalabasan ng desisyon natin. But looking at the bright side, magkamali ka man sa desisyon mo, may lesson ka na matututunan lagi at sa susunod na mapunta ka ulit sa kalagayang yon, alam mon a kung anong pipiliin mo.
Mahirap gumawa ng desisyon pero kailangan. Decisions will help you grow and will test how brave and how smart you are in making choices. Okay lang naman magkamali, what’s important is you will learn along the process.
Ikaw? Anong pinkamahirap na desisyon na ang nagawa mo?